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They were understandably nervous, as it would be their first time doing anything, and I stumbled across an idea of how to look at the possibility of sex tome on our weekend as "The Safe Zone.

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If you wind up not enjoying yourself, or feeling natural latinaor having an issue, you can write it off as a self-contained package.

My Canadian friends were worried about what might happen if they tried something they wound up not liking and left feeling discouraged or angry swingrrs jealous or regretting the weekend.

These are all valid concerns, and things that could very well happen as you dip your first tentative toes into the waters of any variant in the non-monogamous lifestyle spectrum.

My Safe Zone idea is about giving yourself permission 1st time swingers any regrets. Swinging. make those mistakes and mess up, because it's those potential mistakes, those things that could backfire so greatly, that wind up being the absolute best things about the lifestyle. If something bad happens, like jealousy or anger, they can give themselves permission to "leave it in Michigan.

If you're planning a date with a couple for the first time, you can designate that date as The Safe Zone. Plus, with true freedom and openness comes the likelihood that you won't create lasting scars.

There is an tall women dating problems. component to this, however: If you see your spouse or significant other doing something surprising and it raises deep new feelings and jealousies that you didn't expect, it sure as hell can feel impossible to leave those issues at the door.

But I think that part of the price of admission to this lifestyle is pushing yourself to leave some of these things. Not all of us will get through our first experiences without feeling conflicted and jealous.

Like the removal of The End Game the idea that any breach would be cause to immediately shut down your relationshipthis is something that you have to implant inside of. Even if I so desperately want to.

We can decide that yes, I feel this way, but I'm going to own that and stop it. That I'm going to change the dialog.

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That I'm going to decide to be alright. Doing this can only teach us and our partners more than we knew about ourselves and each other. Experimentation and pushing boundaries are the bread and butter of a happy life.

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The mantra that "I'll try anything twice in case I did it wrong the first time " is so very important because that's how you learn who you really are. If you never try these things for fear that you may not like them, you cut yourself off from the possibility of discovering something exciting.

Something you never thought you'd like. And you might really like it.

The Safe Zone is about allowing yourself to mess it all up, to destroy it and rebuild it, without fear of retribution ttime the outside. It's within that freedom that catharsis can happen, and it's within catharsis that true learning lives. Because sometimes you learn, in a little hotel in Michigan, that girls are soft, and smell good, and taste good, and you're only able 1st time swingers any regrets. Swinging. learn that because you felt safe enough to go.

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